Questions people actually ask
Do you help us plan the actual shoot?
Yes, and honestly this is most of what you're paying for. For surprise proposals I map drive time from your starting point, the exact arrival window so we hit the last stretch of good light, the walking route to the spot, what to say if your partner asks questions, and the timing math so you still make your dinner reservation after. For engagement sessions we'll scout the location together, plan outfit changes if you want them, time it to the light. Either way, every step rehearsed. Most photographers send a satellite image and call it planning. Mine is the first 5 minutes of a real conversation. The couples who book us say this part is what calms their nerves the most.
What if it rains? What if she gets sick? What if the ring isn't ready?
We reschedule. No deposit, no fees, no drama. I've seen every kind of curveball: late ring, foggy beach, sick partner, family emergency. The shoot moves; nothing changes. Just give me as much notice as you can.
How far do you travel?
Standard service area is San Francisco down through Big Sur, and north to Napa and Sonoma. We regularly shoot proposals across all of it. For anything outside that range (Yosemite, Tahoe, Hawaii, destination), just ask and I'll work up a custom quote.
How long does the shoot last?
Entirely situational. Sometimes 20 minutes, sometimes a full hour. The Coastal collection tends to be shorter (proposal moment + a quick engagement walk). Signature and Full collections take more time because we're covering more locations and capturing more variety. I'll plan the exact window with you ahead of time.
When will we get our photos?
Sneak peeks (a handful of edited favorites) land within 24 hours of the shoot, so you have something to share with family the next day. Your full edited gallery follows within 7 business days.
Do you require a deposit?
No. Schedules change, weather changes, life happens. I don't want you locked in financially before the shoot is done. The exception is last-minute bookings (less than a week out) where I may need payment up front because I'm moving appointments around to accommodate you.
When do I pay?
When your sneak peeks land, within 24 hours of the shoot. Zelle, Venmo, PayPal, or wire (your choice). The full edited gallery lands in your inbox within 7 business days. If you want to upgrade tiers after seeing the photos, you can pay the difference then.
How does my partner not see you with the camera? (Surprise proposals only)
For surprise proposals we shoot from far enough back that they'll never spot us, usually 30 to 60 feet away with a telephoto lens. Your photographer looks like a tourist with a big camera, blending into the scenery. We point out exactly where we'll be standing in your planning call so you can angle your body the right direction. In 20 years and 1,000+ proposals between me and my team, we've never had one blown by being spotted. (For engagement sessions, the photographer is obviously there, but we direct quietly so the moments feel natural, not posed.)
Can we include our young child in the proposal?
Absolutely. An alternate approach: tell your partner you hired a photographer to capture your small family at a cool location. You both go into it knowing you need to look your best and a photographer is involved. At some point during the shoot, you propose. It works beautifully and the kid often becomes the centerpiece of the photos.
Do you provide decor or flowers?
We don't do decor ourselves; one job at a time. But once you book, I'll hand you my list of the Bay Area's best flower-and-signage people. I've stood next to their work for years.
Do you shoot video of the proposal?
We can, but people generally hire us for still photography and editing. Here's the workaround: at the pre-agreed-upon proposal spot, your photographer is nearby pretending to take photos of something else. You walk up, hand them your phone, and ask if they can take a picture of the two of you real quick. They oblige, except you handed the phone over already in video mode. They pretend to start taking a photo but the video is rolling, you get down on one knee, and voila, it's all captured without anyone having to hide. We can absolutely recreate the scene with still photos too, so it's really the best of both worlds.
Will you shoot our wedding too?
We'd love to. A lot of our proposal couples never really leave: engagement, wedding, then the family shoots. I get to hit all the high points in people's lives. It's the best part of the job. Just text me when you're ready to talk dates.
What if she says no?
Hasn't. Happened. Yet.
How far in advance should I book?
Two weeks is comfortable. One week is doable. 48 hours is possible: text me and I'll tell you straight if we can pull it off. Holiday weekends and sunset weddings nearby can fill the calendar fast, especially September through December.